Advantages Of Single Parenthood: Is It Beneficial Being An Only Parent?

May 11th, 2008 JenniferA. Posted in Parenting No Comments »

In this populous world, there are to be found a number of people bringing up their children as single parents. For most of them it becomes really difficult to make both ends meet. Even complying with the basic necessities becomes quite difficult. Whatever the situation, is it advisable to educate and nurture the children as the only parent?

Most of the women look forward to having babies, but when the matter of upbringing comes, they choose to do it solely. Why? For a single mother, sole parenting becomes quite easy especially when she has a highly earning job too. She is able to provide good education and a better lifestyle to her children. Moreover, being the only boss at home, she can manage to have her own rules and principles for raising the kids. Apart from these benefits, a woman who is domineering enough feels at ease in single parenting, as she doesn’t have to discuss the behavior problems with her spouse in order to discipline the children.

Pursuing a job and having a baby, both at a time are not possible, but instead of resigning, such mothers go on maternity leave, and come back after some time, leaving their young ones either with a hired nanny, or at certain day care center. Another option for having a baby is to adopt. Though the process is complicated especially when the parent is alone, but giving the proof of financial stability plays a supportive role for them. They show that they are capable of fulfilling the needs and demands of their adopted child. In adoption too, the benefits of being the only parent are the same as discussed above. That is, the parent is the one who decides the dos and don’ts for the young one.

Our purpose is not to make fun of our conventional household, in which both the parents participate in the upbringing of their children. This system being advantageous to most of the people, is still practiced largely. It is beneficial for children too, as they have both the parents looking after, and loving them. In contrast to the above situation, in which there is only one person facing all the hurdles and burden of life, this scenario presents a helping hand for the whole family, be it in form of support from the father to mother or vice versa, or from children to their parents.

Keeping in view both the situations, and considering the circumstances, neither of them is more advantageous. For some women, sole parenting is a task done easily instead of parenting together with the spouse. The proficient and qualified woman of the US has the competency and ability to manage her job and household together, in the competitive world of today. She is no more inspired those giving up their careers for their little ones. Their aim is to have kids and look after them along with their jobs, but without the intervention of their partner. To them parenting on their own seems convenient.

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What Is The Best Age To Introduce A Child To Electronic Educational Toys?

May 10th, 2008 AmyNutt Posted in Parenting No Comments »

When searching for a new toy for your child, you may experience a bit of sensory overload when walking through the toy department. There are all kinds of colors screaming at you with huge numbers and letters to accompany them. However, there are more than just colors and numbers getting your attention. There are also lights, sounds, and talking toys. If the kids are with you, they are really excited and decide it is time to turn on every single toy that makes noise so that they can hear them chiming, ringing, singing, and beeping all at the same time. Obviously the kids know how to operate these toys, which means they have been introduced to them at one time or another. So what is the right time to introduce a child to electronic educational toys?

We see them everywhere for all ages. We see them for babies, toddlers, and school age kids. For babies, these toys will have very colorful buttons on them that may make animal sounds and say what the animal is or play music for them. For toddlers, the toys will say the name of an animal when the little one pushes the button or will even start teaching numbers and letters. For school age kids, they can improve their spelling and math skills in order to do better in school. The possibilities are endless, but that still brings up the debate of when a child is too young for electronic education toys. Or are they too young?

The consensus seems to be that children who are of school age should be the ones introduced to electronic educational toys. The reason for this is because children of this age are more likely to understand the different functions of the toy instead of being constantly confused as to what all it can do. For children younger than that, it is believed that non-electronic toys require more imagination. Electronic toys do teach numbers, shapes, and the alphabet, but non-electronic toys encourage creative thinking.

Also, although electronic educational toys are interactive, the interaction of non-electronic toys ties in with the concept of creative thinking. Non-electronic toys also encourage children to interact with each other, whereas electronic educational toys are primarily made for individual play. Non-electronic toys also promote physical activity.

But the good news is that by the age of 5, a child has developed many of these skills and can be introduced to electronic educational toys to help them in their studies. However, it is still beneficial to incorporate non-electronic toys into a child’s life to allow them to continue using their imagination. Although the child may have an electronic educational toy, it is still beneficial to use old fashioned flash cards, alphabet blocks, refrigerator magnets, and other such toys to promote imagination and learning. One such way to promote imagination is through the use of building blocks that allow children to build things.

Yes, the electronic educational toy market is huge. There are actual consoles and so many games and educational programs that it can make a parent’s head spin when walking through the toy department. Even after leaving the store, the toys that come home continue to make a parent’s head spin with all of the beeping, music, and other various sounds that appeal to children. However, despite the constant noise these toys make when the kids are playing with them, when a parent hears the toy say, “Well done,” “correct,” or “good job,” a parent can’t help but have a smile on their face because they know they have a little genius on their hands.

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Choosing Unique Baby Names – A Blessing Or A Curse?

May 10th, 2008 JennaScaglione Posted in Parenting No Comments »

Choosing unique baby names for our children can be an exciting, yet stressful experience. Are their names going to aid them in life or attract negative attention? As parents, we dream of our child being successful and important, which is why choosing a baby name can be a very rewarding experience. Unfortunately, society is more concerned with the outer image then with the measure of a person’s character. As a result, we worry about our child being accepted by their peers, while being unique enough to stand out from the crowd. We know as parents that our baby’s name can be directly related to their path and successes in life; therefore, it is not something to be taken lightly.

There are keys to keep in mind when choosing unique baby names that can help to ward off unneeded stress, as this should be a wonderful experience to share with those whom you love.

Here are a few thoughts to consider when choosing a unique baby name:

1. Unique baby names are beautiful, but remember to think about your child’s social interactions in the future.

As mothers, we just want the best for our children, and we want to feel proud also. However, sometimes this is not always the best for our kids. A unique name for your baby is wonderful, but it should not be too unusual. This may hurt them in the long run. As much as we hate to admit it, children can be cruel growing up. We have all experienced this one way or another.

2. You have the last word when choosing a baby name

Sometimes, family heritage is a very strong influence when choosing a name. It is a wonderful idea to pass down and respect a family; however, it is not healthy for you or your new baby if you are trying to please them and not yourself. This is your baby, and you should be happy with the name. You should not settle on a name until you are completely happy, whether or not it is family related.

3. If you are having a lot of trouble, ask for suggestions from people you love and trust.

It is good to get suggestions from others, for it broadens your thinking and may just surprise you with some new, beautiful, unique baby names. Send out emails to your coworkers and friends asking them to come up with the top unique baby names. You can even make it into a contest and reward them with a free lunch. Have some fun with it. This way, you can let all of the people you love take part in this wonderful decision with you, and take some of the stress away!

4. Do not feel guilty that you do not have a name yet.

You might not know this, but it is very common to be stuck on choosing a baby name. Do not let anyone tell you that you have to hurry up and find a name before the baby is born. It is perfectly OK to be indecisive. You just want the best for your new baby. I think your child would be happy that you are this concerned, so try not to stress about it. It will come at the right time.

5. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride!

As mothers, we face a lot of stress having to deal with pregnancy and parenting. We do not need any more pressure than we already have. Just remember, you will only go this way once, so try to enjoy it!

Try not to worry about any adverse effects or mistakes you will make with finding unique baby names for your new little one. Trust me, if you are concerned about your child this much, then I am sure this baby will have all of the love and adoration it needs. Your unconditional love will give them the success and ability to fulfill any dreams they have, and overcome any obstacle they may come against. No name, whether unique or not, can ever compete with that.

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Vaccinations And Your Baby: Hepatitis B

May 9th, 2008 BeverlySugarman Posted in Parenting No Comments »

Vaccinations are a miracle of modern science. Thanks to these injections, diseases that used to be deadly in the past have almost completely disappeared today. Upon the birth of a new baby, most hospitals give the new parents a booklet that contains a vaccination schedule that the doctor can initial as each shot is given. Looking at the list of the various vaccinations, many new parents do not understand what the vaccinations are for. To understand the necessity for a vaccination, you must first understand the disease that it fends off.

The first vaccination that your new baby should receive is labeled HepB. This abbreviation stands for Hepatitis B, a serious virus that attacks the liver. This disease can result in lifelong liver infections, cirrhosis (scarring of the liver), liver failure, and death. The virus is passed when the blood of an infected person enters the blood of a person who is not infected. The disease can be transmitted from an infected mother to her infant during childbirth. It is also commonly found in the infants of immigrants who came from areas that have high rates of Hepatitis B.

Most obstetricians recommend that expectant mothers should have a Hepatitis B test to determine if they have the disease, as many infected people are not aware that they have the virus. The result of this test can determine when your baby will need his first vaccination of HepB. For infants that mothers have tested positive or the test results were inconclusive, the vaccination is given within twelve hours of the child’s birth. In the case of the mother testing negative for Hepatitis B, the doctor may delay giving the shot for several days if there is a more pressing medical problem that needs to be addressed. Because this disease is highly contagious, the HepB vaccine is mandatory, even though the mother tests negative and is definitely not infected.

After the initial dose of HepB, several more doses will be needed to protect your baby to the fullest. The second dose should be given at the age of one to two months. There is a monovalent HepB vaccine and a combination vaccine that contains HepB. Depending on which type your baby has received will affect his vaccination schedule. If he was given the monovalent HepB during his two month vaccination, your baby will not need a repeat dose at four months of age. If the combination vaccine was used, your baby will need another vaccine at four months. The final dose of HepB can be given anytime after twenty-four weeks (approximately 6 months in age). Infants born to infected mothers should be tested after their third dose of the vaccine to determine if any further treatment is needed.

Hepatitis B is a serious and deadly disease. Again, many infected people are not even aware that they have this disease. By having your new baby vaccinated with the HepB shot, you can protect him in case he would come in contact with an infected individual.

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Wooden Swing Sets - A Parenting Decision You Can Feel Good About

May 8th, 2008 StephanieFoldy Posted in Parenting No Comments »

Remember how much fun it was when you were a child and you would go to the park and get to play on the playground with the swings and big slides? You kept wishing that you could have that playground in your own backyard. With today’s wooden swing sets, it is possible to have a sophisticated playground right in your own backyard for your children to enjoy. You will also have the security of knowing that a wooden swing set is more stable than the metal A-frame designs. You even have the ability to tailor your swing set to the age of your children, changing components as they grow.

Once you decide to purchase a swing set, one of the first considerations you will need to make is whether or not you want to custom design it. With so many styles and designs available, you may find one (or more) that is perfect for your children. Think about the activities that you know your kids enjoy. If they like climbing, a rock wall and monkey bars are necessities. If they enjoy playing in contained spaces, such as homemade fort or clubhouse, you may want to include one as part of the swing set.

Many children are intimidated by heights. While they often grow out of this, you will want to consider this fear in your swing set purchase. Many designs include several tiered levels that are exited from tall slides. There are many features that can be used to reach these elevations, including ladders, rock walls, and ramps. The beauty of wooden swing sets is that these features can be easily changes, so consider what may be the easiest and safest for your children until they become comfortable with the heights.

Many people enjoy designing the entire layout of their swing set. If you fall into this category, your shopping will involve finding the accessories that you need, such as swings, monkey bars, and slides. Again, wood swings sets make it easy to change these features to enhance the value and enjoyment of the swing set. You will also need to find the hardware necessary, so consider a source that packages as many of these items together as possible.

There are many swing set kits that you can purchase that include all of the materials that you need, including the lumber. The advantage to these sets is that the wood is pre-cut and pre-drilled, so the assembly is easy. While the swing set kit is made for its specific architecture, you still have the option to substitute parts, such as swings. Swing belts are great for older children, but if you have a toddler, a bucket swing may be more appropriate for now. For some variation, consider substituting a standard swing for a glider or tire swing. You can also find many items to accessorize other parts of your swing set, from ship wheels to tic-tac-toe panels.

Regardless of whether you create your own design or choose a pre-designed model, today’s wooden swing sets are sturdy and customizable, making them the perfect backyard accessory for your children, and one that they can participate in the planning of. You will feel confident knowing that the swing set is made of durable wood that will keep it strong and looking great for many years.

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Your Baby’s Vaccinations: DTaP

May 8th, 2008 BeverlySugarman Posted in Parenting No Comments »

One of the worst times in a young mother’s life is the first time that she has to take her baby to be vaccinated. It probably bothers her more than it does the infant. Looking at her baby’s vaccination schedule, the new mother can tell which shot that her baby is receiving, but she may have no idea about what it is for. Understanding what disease that a vaccine is used against can help a young mother understand the need for them.

One of the most common vaccines on a vaccination schedule is DTaP or just DPT, which stands for diphtheria, tetanus, and petussis. Diphtheria is a respiratory disease caused by bacteria. It is spread by coughing and sneezing and usually begins as a sore throat and a low-grade fever. This disease can cause the airway to become obstructed. Without treatment, this obstruction can lead to a coma and even death.

Tetanus (also called Lockjaw) is a disease that is caused by bacteria and affects the nervous system. It usually enters through a break in the skin (most people associate it with stepping on a rusty nail), and causes lockjaw, stiffness in the neck and abdomen, and difficulty swallowing in the first stages. Later symptoms can include severe muscle spasms, severe autonomic nervous system disorders, and generalized tonic seizure-like activity. This disease results in death in about 10% to 20% of patients.

Pertussis Disease is another respiratory disease that is caused by bacteria. It is also spread by coughing and sneezing. This disease’s symptoms resemble those of a common cold. These include a runny nose, sneezing, a low-grade fever, and a cough. After a couple of weeks, the victim may experience bursts of numerous rapid coughs. Recovery could take months. This disease can have serious complications including bacterial pneumonia and rib fractures. In infants it can lead to apnea (breathing stops), seizures, encephalopathy, and death.

The DTaP vaccination protects a child from all three of these diseases. Beginning at the age of two months, infants are given five different doses of this vaccination up until they are eighteen months old. The second dose should be given at the age of four months. The third should follow at the age of six months. The fourth dose should be administered at the age of eighteen months. A fifth vaccination should be given to a child between four and six years of age.

Along with the DTaP vaccine, there are other vaccines available to prevent diphtheria, tetanus, and pertissus. DT can be used as a substitute vaccination for children who cannot take the pertissus vaccine. Td is a tetanus-diphtheria vaccine that is the tetanus shot that is familiar to most people. These are booster shots that are given to adolescents and adults every ten years, unless an injury occurs. TdaP is the same as Td except that this shot contains the pertissus vaccine and is recommended for children eleven to twelve years of age.

The fact that adults receive booster shots of the tetanus vaccine can be used as proof of how dangerous these diseases are. Anyone with an infant should make sure that their child gets his vaccinations done. The consequences of not doing so could be deadly.

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Vaccinations For Your Baby: MMR

May 8th, 2008 BeverlySugarman Posted in Parenting No Comments »

By the time that your child is one year old, you are familiar with most of the vaccination shots that they have already received, most of these being performed in multiple doses spread out over a period of time. Suddenly you notice a new vaccination on your child’s vaccination schedule: MMR. There is no need to worry. MMR is just an abbreviation for the vaccine that fights measles, mumps, and rubella (German measles).

Everyone has heard of measles although they may not be aware of what causes them. Measles disease is caused by a virus in the respiratory system. It is a highly contagious disease that can be spread through contact with an infected person. It is so contagious that anyone who has not been vaccinated for it will eventually come down with it. Some of the symptoms of measles include a rash, high fever, cough, runny nose, and red, watery eyes. The complications can include diarrhea, ear infections, pneumonia, encephalitis, seizures, and death. Children and adults over twenty suffer from more complications than teenagers do. Measles can cause ear infections in one out of every ten children who get it, while one out of every twenty gets pneumonia. One out of every one thousand children who get measles will suffer from encephalitis, which can lead to deafness or mental retardation. This disease can also cause pregnant women to miscarry or to have a premature birth.

Mumps are also a disease that is relatively familiar to most people. It is defined as an acute viral illness caused by the mumps virus. There are various symptoms connected with this disease. These include fever, headache, muscle aches, tiredness, and a loss of appetite. In its later stages, the disease causes the swelling of the salivary glands. While severe complications rarely occur with mumps, the disease has been known to cause deafness (usually permanent), miscarriages, encephalitis, meningitis, oophoritis (inflammation of the ovaries), mastitis (inflammation of the breasts), and orchitis (inflammation of the testicles). The disease is transmitted through respiratory fluids and saliva. The infected person is contagious beginning three days before the symptoms appear until nine days after they appear. After a person has been exposed to the mumps, it can take up to eighteen days for any symptoms to become known.

Rubella or German measles as it is commonly referred to is the result of a viral infection and is considered a mild disease in children and young adults due to the fact that it only causes a rash and a fever. This disease is spread through sneezing and coughing, or by having contact with an infected person. For pregnant women, however, the complications can be severe. Rubella can cause a number of birth defects in unborn children. These include deafness, cataracts, heart effects, mental retardation, and liver and spleen damage.

MMR is the vaccination that fends off these diseases and is given in two doses. The first dose can be given between the ages of one year to eighteen months. This dose is followed by a second one that is given between four and six years of age.

Vaccinations are an important tool to ensure that our children lead healthy lives. Parents who do not have their children vaccinated could be considered to be guilty of neglect and even endangerment.

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Vaccinations For Your Baby: Varicella, Hepa, And IPV

May 8th, 2008 BeverlySugarman Posted in Parenting No Comments »

Every few months it seems that it is time for your child’s vaccinations again. There may be some vaccines listed on your child’s vaccination record that you do not recognize: Varicella, HepA and IPV. Knowing what these vaccines are and the disease that they fight can help you to understand the need to keep your child’s shots current.

Varicella is the same thing as chicken pox. It is caused by an infection of the varicella zoster virus, which cause a fever and an itchy rash. Its symptoms are a red rash that develops into blisters that cover the body. Sometimes an infected person may also develop a fever. This disease can be spread by coughing and sneezing, direct contact, and the virus seeping out of the blisters .Complications from the disease include bacterial infection of the skin, swelling of the brain, and pneumonia. Adults suffer much more severely than children do.

The Varicella vaccine is given in two doses. The first dose should be given when the child is one year old. The second dose can be given anytime between the ages of four and six years old. If a child that has been vaccinated does in contact with someone who has chicken pox, he may still catch it but may only suffer a milder form.

HepA stand for Hepatitis A which like Hepatitis B is a disease of the liver. This disease is spread by the fecal-oral route or by ingesting food and water that contains the virus. There are virtually no symptoms, which is the reason this disease can be so dangerous to young children by causing undetected liver damage.

The HepA vaccine is given in a series of two doses. The first dose should be given to the child when he is one year old. The second dose can be given six months following the first one.

Another vaccination that is on your child vaccination schedule is IPV, which stands for the Inactive Polio Vaccine. This disease is highly infectious and is caused by a virus that attacks the nervous system. While most people associate polio with its crippling affects, in reality less than 1% of all polio cases end in permanent paralysis. Of these, only 5% to 10% die due to the paralysis affecting their respiratory systems. Up to 95% of people who have polio suffer no symptoms at all. A small percent (4-8%) suffer from fever, fatigue, nausea, headache, stiffness in the back and neck, and various other flu-like symptoms.

The Inactive Polio Vaccine is given in four doses. The first dose should be given to the child at the age of two months. The second should be administered at the age of four months. The third dose should be given to the child between the ages of six months and eighteen months. The fourth booster dose should be administered to the child between the ages of four and six years.

Vaccinations are an important part of your child’s well care plan. By ensuring that he receives all his required shots, you can help your child to grow into a strong and healthy adult.

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Preparing Your Child For Kindergarten

May 8th, 2008 ScarlettCapelli Posted in Parenting No Comments »

As your child approaches school age, you may be wondering if he has the necessary skills to pass his kindergarten screening. There are several things that you can do to prepare your child to enter the school environment.

To interest your child in reading, you should read aloud to them often. This activity will help your child to understand that the printed words represent the spoken words. By asking the child questions about the story, you can help to build up his comprehension skills. You can also teach him words that rhyme and show him how many of these word’s spellings are similar. As you are reading to him, you should point out unknown words and explain their meanings to build up his vocabulary.

You can take your child to the library to read. Many of these institutions have programs especially designed for preschoolers. They often have story times, puppet shows, and other activities geared to encourage a love for reading in these youngsters. These excursions are also the perfect opportunity for your child to become familiar with the layout of the building itself so that as he gets older, he will feel comfortable going there to check out books and do research for school on his own.

You should also print your child’s name often so that he can begin learning how it looks in print and how to spell it. You can also use the letters in your child’s name to help him to associate certain letters with certain sounds. You can take the individual letters of your child’s names and help him finds words that have the same letters in them. This is also a good time for your child to start to practice writing his name.

To help your child prepare for kindergarten math, you should make sure that he is familiar with shapes and colors. He should also have the ability to at least count to ten (preferably twenty). You can practice his shapes with him by drawing or finding objects for each shape and have your child identify them. You can help your child with his counting skills by using various items, placing them in a group, and have him count the total number. You can also practice his problem-solving skills by adding and taking shapes away from the group and having him recount the new total. This will establish a foundation for addition and subtraction. You can play board games with him that requires your child to roll a pair of dice and move a certain amount of spaces. This is good counting practice and a chance to spend some quality time with him as well.

Many children need to develop their fine motor skills when preparing to enter school. You can build these skills by having your child practice cutting straight and wavy lines with child scissors. You can also encourage him to draw pictures with little details in them. Stringing beads on a piece of thread is another way to build up your child’s coordination.

If you practice all the skills that he will need to start kindergarten, your child should pass his kindergarten tests with flying colors.

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Learning To Deal With Stepchildren-The Beginning

May 8th, 2008 ScarlettCapelli Posted in Parenting No Comments »

With the soaring divorce rates today, combined families are becoming more common. Recent statistics have shown that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce, leading to one out of every two children living in a single-parent home by the age of eighteen. 80% of these divorced people will remarry which means that at one point in their lives, the majority of all children will have a stepparent. Becoming a stepparent can be a an awkward and difficult situation, but there are several things that you can do to help you and your stepchild.

It is normal for most stepchildren to resent a new stepparent. Sometimes this resentment is due to the underlying hostility that their biological parent feels towards the former spouse’s new relationship. The children may also view you as an obstacle that stands in the way of their dream (however unrealistic) that one day their parents will get back together. If their biological parent is not involved or is totally absent, they may also see you as an interloper who is trying to take that parent’s place.

As a stepparent, you need to understand these feelings and have the patience to give the children time to become accustomed to you at their own pace. Forcing the issue can cause even more resentment and can push the children even farther out of your reach. If the problem stems from hostility on the former spouse’s part, your spouse needs to discuss the issue with the other party and the two of them need to reach some kind of agreement for the benefit of the children. It would probably not a good idea for you to speak to the ex as that person may view you as an interloper also. If an amicable agreement cannot be reached, you will just have to accept it and take comfort in the fact that most children will make their own decisions about you in the end.

If the resentment stems from the children’s unrealistic expectations of a reconciliation between their parents, your spouse needs to sit down and have an open conversation with the children, explaining that reconciliation is impossible and that you are here to stay. Again, it would be helpful if your spouse’s former partner could be a part of the discussion if possible. If the children hear this naked truth from both parents, they will be more likely to believe it.

In the case of an absent parent, you can reassure the children that you do not wish to take that parent’s place and encourage them to talk about their mother or father. If the children wish to try to contact that parent, you should inform your spouse and offer whatever support is needed if he agrees to try to establish contact. After a period of time in your care, the children will begin to appreciate you as an important part of their lives and may even hold you in more esteem than their absent parent.

Starting a life together with a new spouse is difficult under normal circumstances, while adding stepchildren to the mix can make it all seem like it is not worth it. You need to remember that you married for better or worse, and with a little love and a lot of patience, you may be surprised to discover that you have been gifted with several children that love and depend on you and can fulfill your life more than you could possibly have known.

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